Vanessa & Xander – The Art Of Initiation

Turn “Not tonight” into “Lock the door!”

The secret? Great sex starts with great initiation.

Because when you feel seen, desired, and truly connected, intimacy isn’t a maybe — it’s a hell yes.

Here’s how it works

The Art Of Initiation is an 8-module online course designed to take you from awkward, frustrating initiation to confident, clear, and exciting connection — in as little as one week.

But don’t worry — this isn’t the kind of “course” that feels like homework. It’s a fun, engaging experience that will make you laugh, help you feel normal, and — most importantly — give you practical, proven strategies that actually work.

What You’ll Learn In The Art Of Initiation

• Practical ways to create and sustain more emotional intimacy. (Because when you start feeling like a true team again, physical connection becomes something you both crave!)
• Why differing libidos don’t need to stop you from experiencing the intimacy you deserve — and how skillful initiation can actually bridge the gap!
• How to confidently know and express exactly what turns you on — and get the same from your partner.
• The game-changing initiation questions you never knew to ask, including how your “Ideal Conditions” can turn a “no” into a “YES PLEASE!” (This one is a total game-changer!)
• Confidence-building hacks that will get you initiating with ease — even if you never have before.
• 61 creative and exciting examples of how to initiate!
• Our step-by-step guidelines for irresistable initiation.
• The secret to staying connected even if one of you isn’t open to having sex in a particular moment.
• Your real reasons for saying “yes.” (Hint: being horny actually has very little to do with it, and there’s an entire step-by-step process.)

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