Carlos Xuma – The Alpha Lifestyle: Triple Threat

From the desk of Carlos Xuma

I’m Carlos Xuma, and I’ve been teaching men how to be more attractive to women for over 10 years. You probably know me from my other dating advice programs, seen me on television, or heard me on the radio.

Let me ask you something:

• Do you ever feel like there’s an endless amount of information on the subject of how to pickup women?
• Do you ever wish you had a program that showed you how ALL of these techniques and strategies ties together?

Hang on, because I’m about to show you something that will finally give you the answers you’ve been searching for. I just created what I consider to be the ultimate guide on how to attract women.

What You’ll Learn In The Alpha Lifestyle: Triple Threat

DISC#1

• How to Integrate Pickup with your lifestyle
• REAL GAME overview
• How to evaluate your time and energy used for top results
• Choosing between self-delusion and self-awareness
• How to be yourself – and still attract women
• The true message behind the “Secret” law of attraction
• The most important thing you can do in every conversation with a woman
• The GCC technique for eliciting rapport and attraction with a woman
• The secret intent that will double your success with women
• What the “pickup artist” frame is lacking
• The “ultimate enemy” of your game – what it is and how to get rid of it
• The source-sink theory of conversation and how women view men
• How to energize a conversation to amp it up
• What your conversation must be built around or you will not get attraction “lift-off”
• What being “you” really means…
• The reason that most pickup techniques do not work for you
• The illusion of time and the reality of NOW thinking
• Why most attempts to change do not work
• What the “pickup fallout” is and why you can’t use the same techniques anymore
• What true confidence is to a woman and how she sees it in you

DISC #2

• Essential qualities of a modern confident man
• The 5 essential stages of a man’s identity
• The reality of modern relationships
• The one benefit of a relationship for a woman
• The effect of emotional “chasing”
• The 5 status indicators that women use to evaluate you
• What wealth really symbolizes to a woman and why you don’t need it!
• The 6 REAL Attraction traits that women are watching for
• The power of the “meme” in pickup and attracting women and why women are looking for it
• The ultimate power of the Alpha Man in his “tribe” – and how to demonstrate it
• The essential skills of conversational control
• Empathy and intelligence are what your brain evolved to do, but THIS is the one thing we all look for in every conversation
• The 3 most important Alpha Mastery elements
• The best substitute for motivation
• The 4 Stages of Growth and Excellence that every Alpha man must seek
• The fastest path to through your approach anxiety, and to develop any skill ten times faster
• The 3 Zones of Self-Mastery and how they work together to create your success
• The 5 critical distinctions you must understand to develop confidence
• Why you cannot “fake it til you make it” with women
• The Show-off or Turn-off principle

DISC #3

• Why there is no outer game without inner game
• Establish your personal value – an exercise to determine your personal sense of self
• The belief at the center of your inner game
• Determine the “currency” of relationships and get what you want from them
• The Lamborghini concept of marketplace rarity
• Determine your big inner game obstacle that holds you back, with examples
• The emotion that’s destroying your success- and how to destroy it
• Your automatic “Fast-forward” reaction that creates destructive reactions
• Understanding your “Universal Path” – and finding it…
• The most important skill of an Alpha Man’s Inner Game – how to develop it with examples
• The “permission” that you are giving away too much
• How you create your self-image and self-esteem – the 2 elements
• Inner Dialogue Exercise – how to manage your thinking and interpretation to get the results you want
• How your anxiety starts and how to short-circuit the fear
• How to break down and destroy your fear of approaching women
• The 3 Essential Alpha Questions that define your life
• How to use the 3 Essential Questions to re-frame any experience
• How to use of Occam’s Razor in getting rid of perceived “failures”
• Use the Tiger’s Mouth to command respect from everyone in your life
• Carlos’ 3 Rules of Respect with women

DISC #4

• The principles and application of Alpha Power in every man’s life
• The 3 Sources of all power in your life
• The 3 Forms of Power you can use
• The essential skill that allows you to avoid the hypnotic influence of power
• Carlos’ 4 Alpha Power Principles the rules of Alpha power
• How guys fall into the trap of “knowledge” without skills
• The most universal form of power to develop – the foundation of your lifestyle
• Why it’s absolutely necessary for you to cultivate Alpha Power
• The 4 places to channel your emotional energy into power
• Carlos’ 10 Core Success Skills
• The Hero Story – Define whether you want to lead or be led
• How you have ruined your motivation to approach and how to fix it
• The “Buzzkill” – 6 things you do to kill your confidence when going out to meet women
• What you must never do to yourself when you’re out learning how to pickup women
• 6 of Carlos’ secret techniques for bringing up your confidence and energy
• How to create affirmations and visualizations that really work
• How to keep your attitude and confidence up every day
• What holds back a guy’s growth – THE most painful emotion of all and it’s not fear…
• The true cause of “approach anxiety” – and it’s not what you think!
• The hidden solution to ALL fears of approaching women

DISC #5

• How attraction, your vibe, and interest work like a car’s engine
• Why the best technique with women is NOT technique, it’s…
• How attraction and qualification work together…
• How women qualify men and why they MUST
• How the approach experience differs for men and women
• What you show her by approaching
• The vital element of approach that most men do not use that gives you ultimate control
• How to avoid giving your Alpha Power away when you talk with women
• How women read you and your hidden intent
• Why men evaluate women visually
• What physical indicators men are looking for
• What “reverse” qualification is, and how it kills your self-esteem
• The best venue strategy to keep your attitude safe and healthy
• The one thing men think a woman needs to know, but doesn’t
• The things that men do to start women screening them out
• The STF Model for understanding the three levels of communication
• Where true social power is developed
• How to dramatically improve your ability to understand and attract others
• Understanding what a woman is really thinking under the surface when she just wants to be friends, or when you ask her out…
• How to stay “in the running” with a woman for as long as necessary

DISC #6

• The 3 Parts of Effective Rapport
• How women interpret your social skills and what they mean to her
• What women want to feel about your conversation to “click” with you
• The 4 qualities of Synchronicity
• 4 POWERFUL Connection and Comfort Tools
• Carlos’ 9 DEEP CONNECTION strategies for melting any woman
• What every conversation with a woman has that builds rapport
• How to use the “Emotional Weather Report” to change a woman’s state
• 10 of Carlos’ Essential Techniques for Establishing Unbreakable rapport
• The 15 Minute technique for developing your rapport skills with anyone
• The 2 BIG Relationship mistakes that most guys make and how to avoid them
• The 2 needs men and women have in a relationship
• The 3 Essential emotional skills you need for any relationship
• The 6 principle skills for handling and winning every argument you have
• Carlos’ 4 Arts to keeping a relationship going and staying on top
• The 3 DON’TS of Relationship Management
• The exercise you MUST do to determine the best woman for you
• How much time management is OVERKILL – and what you really need
• The 3 Universal tools for organization and time management
• The 7 Basic principles of money management

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