Vanessa & Xander – The Ultimate Sex Guide
Description Of The Ultimate Sex Guide
Discover a whole new level of pleasure with The Ultimate Sex Guide
No more one-sided experiences. No more routine, predictable, or disappointing moments. The Ultimate Sex Guide is designed to help you and your partner unlock more pleasure, deeper intimacy, and unshakeable connection — every time.
Get ready to experience sex that’s so good, you won’t believe you ever settled for less.
There’s a sex crisis going on in bedrooms across the world…
Here are some of the ways we’ve heard sex described:
- “I can tell that my partner just wants it to be over when we’re in the middle of doing it.”
- “I find myself thinking about my to-do list more often than not.”
- “Is this really what sex is all about? Or are we missing something? It just feels disappointing…”
- “It feels one-sided, like he’s the only one who gets any pleasure or enjoyment out of it.”
- “It’s embarrassing to admit how rarely we have it.”
- “He seems to think that jackhammering is the best technique, but it just feels uncomfortable. Sometimes it’s even painful.”
These are the kinds of thoughts that linger — and as time goes on, you feel yourselves drifting further and further apart.
For so many couples, sex becomes more about obligation than desire, more about habit than connection.
If this is what your sex life looks like, you’re not alone and it’s not your fault. It’s not like we were ever taught HOW to have great sex, right?
Well, not until now…
Uncover the secrets to passion and pleasure with The Ultimate Sex Guide
The Ultimate Sex Guide Is Your Roadmap To Unlocking A New Level Of Physical Intimacy And Connection.
With 42 beautifully illustrated positions, troubleshooting tips, a comprehensive workbook, and even printable position play cards, you’ll both get to explore just how incredible sex can be — and how much closer it can bring you as a couple.
Inside The Ultimate Sex Guide, you’ll discover…
- What each position is best for and why, including our recommended (and tested!) sequences. Plus, extra special combinations of positions that take the guesswork out of getting down to business. From a night of romance to a fun quickie, you’ll find an adventure to match your mood.
- Step-by-step instructions for how to get in and out of each position. No more awkward moments where it feels like your bodies just don’t fit together.
- EXACTLY how to move (i.e. where to place your arms and legs and what to do with your hips) so you can feel confident and actually be in the moment instead of thinking, “What do I do now?”
- Ways to adjust each position to make it work for your unique bodies, so every experience feels just right.
- How to keep each position feeling fresh with exciting variations so your sex life stays hot and full of possibilities.
- How to maximize pleasure for both partners — especially for women. Studies show that 91% of women say intercourse isn’t their favorite activity because it often doesn’t prioritize their pleasure. We’ll show you how to change that so both of you enjoy every moment.
Here’s what you’ll get with The Ultimate Sex Guide
- Ultimate Positions Guide: 42 sexy positions with illustrations, what it’s great for, and how to move in and out of each position.
- Making Sex Work: A comprehensive and research-backed module with our best guidance on how to take a new approach that will leave you both craving it again and again.
- Troubleshooting: Navigating orgasmic timing, how many positions to use and when, aftercare tips, and how to make sex with your partner the best you’ve ever had.
- Workbook: To record your favorite positions and make notes for the future.
- Truth Bombs: The secrets about what women REALLY need when it comes to sex and how to prioritize her pleasure — Let’s close that orgasm gap!
- Expert Tips and Suggestions: Get answers for common sexual hiccups like how to find your thrusting rhythm when you’re out of sync, and what to do if you’re self-conscious about being on top.
- Audio: We’ve transformed our best insights into AUDIO modules for you! It’s everything you’d want to know — but never learned — about having better sex, all in an easy, listen-anytime format. Pop in your earbuds, and let us break down what really makes intimacy incredible.
About Vanessa and Xander Marin
About Vanessa
I’m a licensed psychotherapist and serious goofball. You know what drives me nuts? The fact that sex is one of the main reasons couples break up. This is a totally solvable problem, but we have to start talking about it. Hang with me, friend and I’ll give you the tools you need to strengthen your relationship and have a bangin’ sex life to boot!
I have bachelor’s degrees in human sexuality and sociology from Brown University and a master’s degree in counseling psychology. I’ve been featured in thousands — yes, THOUSANDS — of magazines and online articles as a sex expert. You may have seen me in O, The Oprah Magazine, Real Simple, Harper’s Bazaar, and Refinery29. I’ve also written pieces for Allure, LifeHacker, Bustle, and a little news outlet called The New York Times.
About Xander Marin
I’m the resident penis-owner here. I used to work at Google, but quit when I realized it’s way more fun to talk about sex with my wife all day. While Vanessa’s the certified sex expert, I bring the regular dude perspective to our work. Together as a couple, we’re here to show you that it’s possible to get more comfortable and confident talking about sex.
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